Saturday, November 10, 2007

RIP

Norman Mailer

Thanks for all the words.

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Friday, November 09, 2007

Hold That Thought

One has to question the timing of the Universe...or one can just assume it's not all about one.

My Italy rom-com script just finished as a top 20 finalist in the Creative Screenwriting Expo contest last month. This is after creeping up in the quarter and semi finals of the AAA contest and Fade-in this year. My producing partner's script actually won one of the top awards. We wrapped principal photography last month and are in the midst of editing our first indie feature as we speak. All signs point to: we actually have some talent and might find success here.

And then it all comes to a screeching halt with the WGA strike. Even though I'm not in the union yet, I can't sell anything or work for anyone on anything right now or I never will be allowed in the union. I am striking by proxy. This also means I can't promote myself to would-be agents around town. No one wants to hear it right now. Everyone is focused on their own skins as shows shut down every day and agencies begin to thin themselves out.

So we writers - we reasons you have the movies you love - we'll wait it out until we are fairly paid. Meanwhile, we'll keep the creativity flowing if even just for us:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7vHxw6El0E
(Someone tell me how to embed this stuff on a post. Brilliant!)

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Monday, November 05, 2007

Do your ears a favor

And go listen to Rodrigo Y Gabriela. Met them backstage at the KCRW Sounds Eclectic Eve this year, saw them rock the crowd and Coachella this Spring, saw them last night and the Fonda. Trust me.

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Where Have All The Cojones Gone?

“He needs to be a badass, like Steve McQueen.”

A writer friend and I were talking about his new script. He’s written a fabulous throwback to the great action suspense films of the 70s and we were brainstorming on who could play the lead.

“Tim Olyphant!” I chirped, relishing my Deadwood hero.

“Right vibe but too old.”

He was right. Not that Tim’s old but part in question calls for a twentysomething. So who in the world of Hollywood fits that bill these days? Who would play young Steve McQueen? We pondered this for a while longer and came up dry. We could not think of one manly actor in this whole town.

Now, as a lifelong poet-loving anglo-phile, I dig the whole emo thing as much as the next girl but the universal androgeny of the modern male is getting disturbing. I kind of want my eyeliner back.

Sharing tales of missing masculinity with girlfriends, I hear the same stories echoed back at me. It seems a girl can’t get a manly man in this town. It’s absolutely insane. We spent our teens and twenties being good girls, worrying about our overall partner counts and making sure (ill-considered one night stands aside) to only sleep with men who meant something – who really loved us. Now in our thirties, we’re less deluded, more well-rounded, fascinating babes and we can’t get laid to save our lives. Guys, it seems, have turned frigid.

My girlfriends in relationships talk about how, more often than not, it’s their man who’s not in the mood. I myself spent many teary moments in my last relationship crying myself to sleep as I wondered what was wrong with me.

My singleton friends share tales of meeting guys who seem interested – with whom they’d be totally willing – and the guys never follow up. “I can’t even get a decent one night stand if I wanted to,” a friend wailed recounting a night of dancing at a club and being flirted with all night by a young buck only to watch him leave laughing with his guy friends. So I ask for the frustrated females everywhere: what is wrong with the modern male?

Are guys really so afraid of rejection that they don’t try anymore? Have they actually lost their libidos? Are they all secretly gay? We really want to know.

I’m not saying I’m craving a return to the James Bond misogyny where a guy just took a girl even if she said no. And I’m not suggesting we just want sex for sex’s sake. We still want love and partnership and all the rest of it. But right here and now let’s dispel the myth that girls are the ones who could take it or leave it. I didn’t make it through the repression of my twenties just to hit puritanical thirties.

And apparently, we’re also dispelling the myth that guys want it and are on all the time. Much like realizing unicorns aren’t real, and if you’re a good person good things will come to you, this is one myth that really sucks to let go of.

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